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Work With Bunmi

Sometimes you need more than another conversation at home.

  • You’ve talked.
  • You’ve argued.
  • You’ve promised to change.

And somehow you keep ending up in the same place.

Working with Bunmi gives you a structured space to slow things down, identify the patterns underneath the problem and work towards practical change.

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Find the right support for your relationship

Every relationship situation is different, and not every concern needs the same level of support.

Whether you need clarity about one specific situation, help understanding a pattern that keeps repeating, or deeper support for your marriage, choose the option below that best describes what you need right now.

Please read each appointment description carefully before booking. This will help you choose the right session and make the best use of our time together.

Not sure what to choose?

If you have one specific concern, start with the Relationship Clarity Call.

If the issue has been happening repeatedly or there are several things connected to it, choose the Relationship Pattern & Decision Session.

5 sessions

  1. 01Relationship Clarity CallIndividual session · 30 minutes$55
  2. 02Relationship Pattern & Decision SessionIndividual session · 75 minutes$135
  3. 03Dating Couple Clarity SessionCouple service · 1 hour 45 minutes$150
  4. 04Couple Reset IntensiveCouple service · 3 private sessions$500
  5. 05Marriage Rebuild ProgrammeCouple service · 6 weeks$900
01

Individual session

Relationship Clarity Call

$5530 minutes
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Sometimes you don’t need weeks of sessions. You just need someone to help you make sense of one situation.

This 30-minute private call is for one specific relationship or marriage concern that you need clarity on.

You may be dealing with a recent disagreement, something your partner said or did, a communication issue, or a situation you simply cannot make sense of on your own.

During our call, you’ll explain what is happening, I’ll help you look at the situation from a clearer perspective, and we’ll identify what your next step should be.

This session is best for you if:

  • You have ONE specific issue you want to discuss.
  • You need an outside perspective before reacting or making a decision.
  • You want practical guidance on how to approach a conversation or situation.
  • You are not looking for ongoing support at this time.

Please note: Because this is a 30-minute clarity call, we will focus on one issue. If your situation involves long-standing patterns, several connected problems, infidelity, separation, or a major relationship decision, please book the Pattern & Decision Session instead.

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02

Individual session

Relationship Pattern & Decision Session

$13575 minutes
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This session is for situations that are bigger than one disagreement.

Maybe the same problem keeps happening in your relationship. You’ve talked about it several times but nothing really changes. Or you’ve reached a point where you’re asking yourself, What exactly is going on here, and what do I do next?

During this private 75-minute session, we will look beyond the most recent argument and identify the patterns underneath what has been happening.

We’ll look at what keeps repeating, how you and your partner are responding to each other, what may be making the problem worse, and what needs to change moving forward.

This session is best for you if:

  • The same issues keep coming up in your relationship or marriage.
  • You feel confused about your partner’s behaviour.
  • Communication has become difficult.
  • You are trying to decide what your next step should be.
  • You need someone to help you separate the actual problem from everything that has built up around it.

You will leave the session with clearer understanding of the situation, the patterns I have identified, and practical next steps.

Please note: This is an individual session for one person. If you and your partner want to work through the relationship together, please book the Couple Reset Intensive.

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03

Couple service

Dating Couple Clarity Session

$1501 hour 45 minutes
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This session is for couples who are dating and currently experiencing confusion, repeated conflict, or misalignment.

If both of you:

  • Keep having the same arguments
  • Struggle to understand each other
  • Feel unheard or misunderstood
  • Or are unsure about the future of the relationship

This session helps bring clarity to what is actually going on between you.

What this session is for

This session will help you:

  • Understand the pattern between both of you
  • Identify what is causing repeated issues
  • Communicate in a more structured and productive way
  • Clarify whether you are aligned or not

What we will do

During the session:

  • Both of you will share your perspectives
  • I will guide the conversation and keep it structured
  • We will identify patterns and behaviours on both sides
  • We will focus on clarity, not arguments

This is a guided clarity session, not a debate.

Ground rules

For this session to work:

  • Both people must be willing to listen
  • Both must be open to honest reflection
  • Respect must be maintained throughout

If the session becomes disrespectful, it will be paused or ended.

What this session is not

  • Not therapy
  • Not a space to attack or prove who is right
  • Not a place to force a partner to change

Outcome

You will leave with:

  • A clear understanding of your dynamic
  • Clarity on what is working and what is not
  • Direction on what needs to happen next

Important note: Both parties must be aware of and agree to attend this session.

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04

Couple service

Couple Reset Intensive

$5003 private sessions · 60 minutes each
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The Couple Reset Intensive is for couples who know something between them is no longer working and genuinely want to understand what has gone wrong.

You may still love each other, but communication has become difficult. The same arguments keep happening. One person feels unheard while the other feels misunderstood. Resentment may be building, and conversations that are supposed to solve problems keep creating new ones.

Instead of bringing both partners into one room immediately and allowing the session to become another argument, the Couple Reset gives each person an opportunity to be heard before we bring everything together.

Your Couple Reset includes:

  1. Session 1 — Partner One

    A private 60-minute session to understand their experience of the relationship, concerns and what they believe has gone wrong.

  2. Session 2 — Partner Two

    A private 60-minute session to hear their experience without interruption and understand the relationship from their perspective.

  3. Session 3 — Couple Reset

    A 60-minute joint session where we bring both perspectives together, identify the patterns affecting the relationship and discuss practical changes both partners can begin making.

The purpose is not to decide who is right and who is wrong.

It is to help both of you understand what is happening between you and what needs to happen next.

This intensive is best for couples experiencing:

  • Repeated arguments
  • Communication breakdown
  • Growing emotional distance
  • Resentment
  • Feeling unheard or misunderstood
  • Loss of connection
  • Difficulty resolving the same recurring problems

Both partners must be willing to participate.

Please note: The Couple Reset is a three-session intensive, not ongoing support. If deeper or longer-term work is recommended after your Reset, we can discuss the most appropriate next step.

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05

Couple service

Marriage Rebuild Programme

$9006 weeks
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The Marriage Rebuild Programme is my most in-depth private support for couples who are experiencing ongoing problems in their marriage and are ready to actively work on their relationship.

This is not a one-off conversation.

Over six weeks, we will look at the patterns that have developed in your marriage, how you communicate, where resentment or disconnection has developed, what each partner needs to take responsibility for, and what practical changes need to happen for the marriage to move forward differently.

The goal is not to create a perfect marriage.

The goal is to help two people understand what has been happening between them and begin building a healthier way of relating to each other.

The programme includes:

  • An initial relationship assessment
  • Structured private couple sessions over six weeks
  • Practical exercises and conversations to complete between sessions
  • Identification of recurring relationship patterns
  • Communication and conflict guidance
  • Practical changes for both partners to work on
  • A final review and forward plan

This programme may be suitable if:

  • Your marriage has been struggling for some time.
  • The same problems continue despite many conversations.
  • Resentment has started building.
  • Communication regularly turns into arguments or silence.
  • You feel more like housemates than partners.
  • Trust or connection has been affected.
  • Both of you want to work on the marriage but don’t know how to move forward.

Important: Both partners need to be willing to participate.

The programme requires honesty, effort and participation from both people. Booking the programme does not guarantee a particular outcome for your marriage.

Between-session communication is limited to brief updates or clarification relating to the work we are already doing. New or significant relationship issues will be discussed during your scheduled sessions.

This programme is educational and relationship-focused support and is not a substitute for medical, mental-health, legal or emergency services.

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How booking works

  1. Choose the session that fits.
  2. Pick a time and answer a few questions about your situation.
  3. Read and accept the booking terms.

What you’ll be asked

Your relationship status and how long you’ve been together, why you’re booking, what keeps happening and what you’ve already tried, and what you’d most like to leave the session with.

If you’re booking a couple service, you’ll also be asked whether your partner is aware of and willing to take part.

Please remember

These sessions are relationship-focused support and are not a substitute for medical, mental-health, legal or emergency services.

The booking form includes a question about violence, threats or fear for anyone’s safety. If you or your partner are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services.

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